You’ve Already Won
Knowing you’ve won in life is something that excites all of us.
The craziest part? Every single day, we win something—yet somehow, we don’t always see it.
Do you realize that every day you’ve gained another chance to live, to laugh, to see, to exist, to hug, to sing, to dance, to create, to eat, to be with the ones you love? Every day, every second… is something you have won.
Whether it's moving to a new home, getting new clothes, or simply enjoying a sweet treat…
Being able to witness the people you love grow, live, dance, laugh, share—that’s a victory for us all.
Meeting new people, learning new things every day, speaking, communicating, sharing—these are things we win each day.
Yes, we are all winners and losers.
We all lose something along the way, but what I’ve realized is that every day, I win more than I lose.
My gains are constant. My losses? Smaller.
I am a multi-billionaire in this life.
Having children and seeing them with my eyes—especially knowing that over 23 years ago, I was blind…
and now I can see my children, see them laugh, see them eat, see them dance…
It’s simply beautiful.
Let me tell you a secret:
When you focus on what you’ve lost, you automatically feel like you’ve lost…
but in truth, you’ve gained something new.
Literally.
We must always look at life through its full abundance—
and how it’s giving you that abundance.
And how we share it: with a smile, with patience, with hugs, with words, with messages, with food, with whatever we choose to give from our abundance.
That’s what’s beautiful.
It’s beautiful to know that we are so abundant in these things that we can give to others without lacking anything—
without fearing we’ll lose it—because we know we have plenty.
Emotional things.
Spiritual things.
And physical things—like a hug.
Have you ever stopped to realize that a simple hug is something physical?
That a single word becomes physical for someone else when they hear it?
Yes, that’s right.
So when I look at life this way, I can see my life in pure and complete abundance—
and no one can ever take that from me.
Because it only depends on me—on how I choose to see life, and where I focus.
Knowing we have the power to keep creating abundance in all forms is magical.
It’s something we never thought we’d have—
but we’ve always possessed it, since the moment we were born.
So when you look at your life and your surroundings and feel like you don’t have much…
Remember what you read today.
Remember that you are more than prosperous.
And the more you focus on what you do have—
and less on what you think you don’t—
the more things you’ll realize you already have:
things, situations, emotions…
and simply blessings.
Because the simple fact that you’re reading this on your phone right now is a sign that you are already prosperous in this life.
You have a phone in your hand.
And somehow, you have internet access that allows you to read this.
And we should never take that for granted—because that alone is a blessing in your life.
Counting and claiming the blessings you already have is more beautiful than you imagine—
because doing so brings more blessings and magic into your life.
So remember:
Everything around you is for you.
Everything you touch and live is so you can realize that even when you touch something in a store that isn’t yours yet,
that experience alone is a blessing.
It means you’re so close to what you want…
you can literally touch it.
So you’ll know that one day—no matter when—it will be yours.
Let me leave you with a personal example.
Since I was a little girl, I always wanted to own a Bronco.
But when I grew up, the car had already been discontinued.
Years passed. I was never able to buy a car in my name…
until I got divorced.
That moment marked the start of my independence.
And out of nowhere—that same year—Ford decided to bring the Bronco back.
And that’s when I simply decided to buy the Bronco I had always dreamed of.
It was even more beautiful than I imagined.
In that moment, I realized:
Even though I couldn’t have it when I first wanted it,
the desire to own it was more powerful than I had imagined.
Because when I was about to buy a car, I said to myself:
“I wish there was a new Bronco I could buy. I’ve always wanted one.”
And literally, a month later, they announced the new Bronco.
And I literally ordered the Bronco of my dreams—color, interior, everything.
Maybe to you this doesn’t sound like manifestation…
But to me, it absolutely was.
Everything aligned for me—
at the same time that this car was returning to the market,
I was becoming independent in so many ways.
And the love I felt for this discontinued car was still alive for one reason:
Because my inner child believed that one day, she would own that car.
And that’s why my adult self still wanted it.
And I got it.
So no matter how much time may pass—
You will receive what you once wished for.
Believe me.
Because this isn’t the only thing I’ve seen manifest in my life.
Today, I spoke to you from a place of pure and beautiful love—
from my soul and my heart.
And honestly, I have no idea what tomorrow will bring—
and that’s even more exciting.
Discovering blessings along the way is beautiful.
And sharing them with you—
even more.
So today, I’ll leave you with this:
The only thing I know for sure is that you are far more abundant than you can see right now.
And the more abundance you discover in your life—
in every little detail—
the more abundant your future will become.
That, you can be sure of.
I love you.
—The Woman on Fire 🔥